Virginia Beach psychologist specializing in sex and relationships
Virginia Beach psychologist specializing in sex and relationships
Does size matter?

Michelangleo's DavidDear Dr. Andrea,
Is penis size important to women? I know they say it's not supposed to be, but sometimes I get a different impression.
-- Bob P.

Dear Bob,
Functionally, the size of the man's penis is not the necessary ingredient for a woman's pleasure. The G-Spot is located just inside the vaginal opening within easy reach of a finger, and the clitoris is located externally above the vaginal opening within easy reach of a finger or tongue, so the penis is not a crucial player for a woman to achieve pleasure.

However, like some men who have a preference for large breasts or small breasts, heavy legs or thin legs, some women may also develop psychological preferences for the size of a man's penis.

There are some women who enjoy a man who is well endowed, and there are some women who are uncomfortable if a man's penis is too long or too wide (both physically and psychologically).

Most women understand that the vagina is not a set size. It is a potential space. During lovemaking, the vagina expands to accommodate the penis, whatever it's size. Some may fit more snugly than others. While some women do have penis size preferences, most women focus more on the quality of the relationship and the man's lovemaking techniques.
 

Please Note: Although Dr. Valerio is a licensed clinical psychologist, this column is not intended to provide therapy, diagnoses, or treatment of any kind. The information presented here should in no way be considered as a substitute for your own inner guidance or consultation with a duly licensed health care professional.
 

Virginia Beach psychologist specializing in sex and relationships